Admonish your friends in private, praise them in public.
在私底下要忠告你的朋友,在公開場合又表揚你的朋友。
Knowing that the industrious ant lives in a highly organized society does nothing to prevent us from being filled with revulsion when we find hordes of them crawling over a carefully prepared picnic lunch.
即使知道勤奮的螞蟻生活具有高度組織性的社會里,當看到大群螞蟻在我們精心準備的午間野餐上爬行時,我們也無法抑制對它們的反感。